Comments on: A Test to See How Compatible You Are With Your Partner http://mindchic.net/a-test-to-see-how-compatible-you-are-with-your-partner/ Love lasts when the relationship comes first Wed, 08 Sep 2010 07:24:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Sandra Christian http://mindchic.net/a-test-to-see-how-compatible-you-are-with-your-partner/comment-page-1/#comment-160 Sandra Christian Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:24:29 +0000 http://mindchic.net/?p=627#comment-160 Thanks for the resources. Hope you will visit the blog again. Thanks for the resources. Hope you will visit the blog again.

]]> By: Dr. Jeanette Raymond http://mindchic.net/a-test-to-see-how-compatible-you-are-with-your-partner/comment-page-1/#comment-141 Dr. Jeanette Raymond Sat, 27 Dec 2008 01:16:52 +0000 http://mindchic.net/?p=627#comment-141 A compatability quiz is a fun and useful tool for couples to engage in as part of their journey in getting to know one another. It's great for opening up conversations that may otherwise not take place. Exploring each other in this way can be eye opening. There is one thing missing though! That is that we don't pick partners with our conscious minds. It is always(unless it is an arraged marriage or a marriage for a specific purpose other than "love.")unconsious. We have a template inside us of the person we feel attracted to and it's usually to do with unfinished business. We tend not to see the real person our partner is but the one we need to see to resolve personal issues for ourselves - am I loveable? etc. Check out my blog on how to unravel the code that couples use to communicate: http://wwwcouplesspeakdecoded.blogspot.com/ A compatability quiz is a fun and useful tool for couples to engage in as part of their journey in getting to know one another. It’s great for opening up conversations that may otherwise not take place. Exploring each other in this way can be eye opening.

There is one thing missing though! That is that we don’t pick partners with our conscious minds. It is always(unless it is an arraged marriage or a marriage for a specific purpose other than “love.”)unconsious. We have a template inside us of the person we feel attracted to and it’s usually to do with unfinished business. We tend not to see the real person our partner is but the one we need to see to resolve personal issues for ourselves – am I loveable? etc.

Check out my blog on how to unravel the code that couples use to communicate: http://wwwcouplesspeakdecoded.blogspot.com/

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