It is not uncommon. Gentlemen with perfectly nice personalities lose out to someone else who does not treat girls half as nice. These guys are called “players”. They play with a ladies’ hearts and break them. If being too nice is a put-off, what can reduce this type of seemingly ridiculous situations from happening?

Let’s absorb the best practices of these players without changing our rare, nice personalities. Without a doubt, these players are fun to be with, mysterious, unpredictable and very confident. And they care about their appearances. Anyone can take up some of these traits. For example, when going out with a girl, suggest suddenly going to some places, such as a Japanese restaurant. While this is not the usual you, it certainly is not hard to pull off. After the date, do not call her for 2 days at least. This is to keep her wondering if you are serious about her. Such tricks accurately executed can steal a girl’s heart. People do not want things that are too easy to get.

Be decisive on all matters. Many girls look out for confident guys who are very in control of their own lives. Do take note there is a line between being in control and being pushy. Always have more than 1 plans for a date, so that if anything goes wrong there is another place to go to. A cheap date is okay. If a girl likes you,she will not mind where you are going together. Spending too much money, on the other hand, signals that you are needy and desperate.

Be cool. Don’t be nervous or anxious. Never let her know you can’t sleep on the eve of your date. Give her all of your attention during the date. Remember all the gentlemanly things to perform, like opening the doors for her, pulling the chair back. It is usually alright to hold back on the gifts when you have done well in other aspects.

Be a good listener. This is where us nice guys have an advantage. Most women like to communicate verbally and welcome the chance to be heard. Try to remember details and ask good questions. She will like it as you show a interest in her.

Look immaculate. Look smart. You do not have to be handsome to look good. You also do not have to dress corporately. Good clothing, hairstyle and accessories are essential. If you need advice, look for a professional stylist. If you do not have the dough, seeking advice from a friend will be good enough. Then, the last thing to do is to feel good.

Your girlfriend cannot be the center of everything. You got to have a life, and maintain it. Do not ignore all your friends just because you are obsessed with her.If she ask you out and you really do not feel like it, do reject her. Let her respect you for the fact that you have a life.Offer an alternate date instead.

Last but not least, know your strengths well. What are your good points that those so called players have failed to acquire. List them, look at them regular,and start believing that you are a great man, and behave like one.



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