There are a lot of characteristics men exhibit that constantly displeases their women. Sometimes it is because they are too insensitive, while other times it is the women who are too sensitive. Because everyone puts a different value to different stuff, misunderstanding occurs.

For example, when a woman is angry, men’s natural instincts is to leave her alone, and let her cool down. This is what the man think is the best course of action. But little did he know that the woman actually long for him to talk to her. Also, as we know, women can give and read hints better. So they may be displeased when men cannot read the hints or notice the hints in the first place.

Personal belongings such as wallets and bag mean a lot to women. They would cry over losing them for days. Often the man would just pass her some money to buy the bag, further annoying her. To the man, the bag is just that, a bag. He does not understand why she had to be so emotional over it.

Most men are lazy and hate changes. Therefore, there are men who can keep the same hairstyle for decades! Women are different. When it comes to appearances, they love changes. Since changes are not so important to men, they fail to recognise and complement the women when she changes her hairstyle, clothes, skirt or shoes.

The same laziness leads men to throw their stuff around. And this makes the woman unhappy as she loves hygiene and order. This becomes even more annoying to her as the man asks her for help in finding something he just threw around.

Men focus on big things, such as his career. Women, on the other hand focuses on the details, such as how the hair falls in place. Dates that are important to the woman, such as wedding anniversaries may be forgotten momentarily by the men. Thus, another fight breaks out.

There are many reasons why women reject men. It can range from everything from bad manners, bad hygiene habits to bad mood on her part and even the bad weather! However, there are some obvious reasons why women reject men and you will do well to avoid the following.

First, you must be an independent human being! When it comes to love and being with someone you give your heart to, people tend to cling together all the time, as if they are stick by industrial level glue. It may be sweet at first but after a while it grows stale. As a guy, do not be too clingy! Research done by psychologists is that we often associate this as weakness, insincerity and often the desire to get something out of us. Ever had a salesperson clinging on to you to get you buy something? You know what I mean!

The effect of this is that it often results to the guy on the sidelines that gets the attention and adulation. We are actually attracted to the one who pays us not that much attention! This principle, combined with a strong confidence and self belief, will bowl a girl over. Be friendly, smile but do not appear too concerned about her. Keep a reasonable distance and let your confidence aura reach her.

Another reason why women reject men is simply some of us do not know what we want in the first place. Sometimes we try too much to change her personality or character instead of getting ourselves to accept her or talking about it from the start. This creates unnecessary tension and unhappiness between the two of you and this is why the relationship fails. Be honest and frank about what you expect and ask the same for her. This will greatly reduce the rejection rate since the relationship has a better chance to go to next level.

More often in the world of relationships, it is the men who cheat, rather than the fairer sex. Due to several factors, men are much more likely to cheat than women, and prevention is better than cure. Sometimes when he begins cheating, there will be no “cure”. So take actions quickly to prevent cheating from ever happening.

Men can find excuses to cheat if they like, so examine the different factors that may lead them to cheat. The most common excuse is lack of understanding, or rather communication. It seems that the “other woman” always communicate better. They know how to encourage and show support more than the wife or the current girlfriend. Perhaps the woman should try to understand the man’s point of view in any argument. In any argument, seek to understand, not to win. The voice must not raised, just speak softly what you feel. Even if he raises his voice, speak softly; he may realise how gentle and gracious you are. Understanding each other leads to a stronger bond, and if the bond is cherished, the man will never cheat on her. Remember men will prefer “gentle” over “strong” every time.

In most cases, men are more confident than women. Sometimes that confidence grows too much that he believe he ca have more than one woman. The law does not prohibit him form having 2 girlfriends either. This will be especially likely if he is financially sound or even rich. Being rich has 2 effects: The first is he will develop great confidence. The second is that girls will flock to him. Since ancient times, women have been looking for rich men to marry.

Sex life is another factor to consider. When a man find that he does not have sex as frequently as he likes, his mind to wander and look for other girls to have sex with. It is not the “quality” of sex that matters; it’s the frequency that he is concerned with. So do not reject the requests too much times. But do remember it’s a mutual pleasure, so if you really do not feel like it, voice it out and let him understand. Explanation works much better than excuses.

The last factor would be one that can be best described as “herd mentality”. Perhaps one of his friends is double-timing and he tells your man how fun, exciting it is and how much he is enjoying himself. Bad company is one of the reasons many men do bad. This is a sort of situation you can help, for men are very loyal to their friends and your disapproval of his friend will be met with anger.

The best way to avoid all these is to understand each other well. When love is very strong, he will only have you, and cheating will not be found in his dictionary.

Both men and women flirt, but both parties have not yet learned the meaning behind the signs. Well, not a lot of people know anyway. Lots of men use flirting techniques on women, hoping to get a good response, but unfortunately most do not know that hints are given at all. This is because too few people know how to read signs. It does not take a book-reader to know the signs; a lot of information can be found online.

If you are really unsure if a man is flirting with you, perhaps not too many observations were done. In fact, a lot of signals can be given out in a quick meal. Observe the eye contact and the other body postures. Is the eye contact very long, was the eyebrows raised, would you say his posture is “open”?

There are some signs that can be caught in very common situations. Besides the above movements, he would also touch his hair or his glasses. This is to show he wants your eyes on him. He may also plays with his accessories, such as his necklace, again trying to attract more attention. He leans forward to indicate he wants to listen, and he laughs, showing that he is comfortable and happy around you. It is subtle, but there are meanings behind them.

These are the common signs that any man, no matter how brave or shy the man may be. Bolder, more confident “alpha” men may use more obvious signs, but they also give you more pressure because the signs are so strong you need to give a response. He may also send a text message saying that he misses you. This is a very clear flirting sign, so it’s up to you to return the message, or forget it and pretend you never received if you are not interested.

Men come into terrible dilemma when they meet a girl that they like. The love is in the heart, but the feat is there too for he does not know whether the girl likes him too. Nobody dares to make a move until he finds signs of interest, so as not to avoid premature rejection or being ridiculed by the girl.

There are different signs a girl can send to show that she likes you. One of them is through the eyes. If she can’t stop herself from looking at you, there are great chances that she is interested, and would expect you to make a move. This is a great sign, so if you experience the same, go for it!

The second sign happens to both men and women. Look for the willingness to help. If a girl is attracted to you, she will find ways to help you. This is because she sees you as Number One priority. In more “extreme” cases, she may call you to ask if you need help. This is the ultimate indication, and it means she wants your company badly.

Jealousy is another good way to tell. Perhaps, on purpose, go talk another girl you know when the girl you are interested is around. Notice if you can see that she is jealous; they can’t hide it! Sometimes, she may ask “Is that your girlfriend?” and that is a sign that they are watching for you. So you know she is jealous, and you want her to show more emotions, what should you do? Perhaps just talk to her casually. And if the jealousy does not go away for a long time, tease her by saying “Are you jealous?”

These few signs will help you determine if the girl you are eyeing likes you as well. If most of these signs are present, there is a good chance that she is. Even if, she is not, going ahead with the confession may bring surprises. Well, life is so random that we never know what would happen.

Commitment is a very tough subject to approach as it requires lifelong effort, more than just a promise. And the man may have unspoken reasons that are holding him back.

A sad childhood link to divorce of any other type of family problems where the couple no longer love each other. To them, the romance of love is one thing, bonded together inn a marriage is another, and he would like to avoid that, being haunted by the shadows of the past. Sometimes it’s just the types. Maybe you are not (yet) the type of women he would gladly spend his life with. Life has different aspects, and you must fit into most of his desired aspects to be his wife.

If you are giving him your all, including sex, that makes very comfortable with the status quo. Of course, its not right of him to assume so, but you also hint that you are not easy-come easy-go. Therefore, start holding back, hinting that you want commitment. Another reason would be that some men love to play around. Especially if you are his 1st or 2nd girlfriend, he would still want to play around more.

Men, like hunters, like a good challenge. So if he feels that you are too easy, he gets lazy very quickly. The harder they have to work for, the more they cherish the relationship. Personality may also be important to a smart man. If you are one who is merely living life as it pass, have no ambitions, then the smart man will never appreciate you well enough. And also, most men would mind the weight of their women, no matter what kind words they would say.

Men want control, not the other way round. If men feel that they have lost it, their self-esteem goes down, and so does their comfort level with you. That may be why your man has hesitated to commit; fear that they would be controlled.

Another possibility is that you are being two-timed. He has another relationship that he is trying to improve, and you are the alternate choice if the first one fails. Or if, on the other hand, he sees you as a girl that flirts around, he would be annoyed by that and never commit. No men like their women to flirt around with another man.

Dating rich men to enjoy financial wealth is a very common thing to do. Most girls will choose a rich and nice guy over a poor yet nicer guy for the security the rich man can provide. It is the dream of a girl, and the envy of countless others, to live a life of abundance simply by marrying a rich man and sharing his wealth. There are some points that girls take note of when trying to accomplish such a aim.

Paying attention to dress sense is important. Rich people enjoy finer stuff, and that includes clothing. A girl who always dresses well form a good impression on any man, rich or otherwise. It will be better to wear a fragrance too. Check your hair and dress before the date and be ready to impress.

Speak gently, ladylike. Be as gentle as possible in behaviour and do not argue with him in presence of other people. All men like their date to be gentle. A loudmouth in the company of the mans’ friends is sure to put off any men. If you are really a loudmouth, at least pretend you are not.

Keep your opinions unheard, your thoughts unspoken. Men desires respect and if the respect is ruined by the stronger and smarter perspective of the date, the man will be crushed. So will the relationship. No man likes to be shown that he is less intelligent than any one else, especially the girl he is going out with. If you make him feel bad about himself in one date, you will never get another date.

Do not try to get him to commit himself at any early stage. Relationships takes time to grow and men just don’t like commitments until they feel they are ready. Asking for marriage too soon will be a strain on the relationship. When meeting with his family, you can give them a good impression by being polite and sweet. That way they will accept you and you will stand a better chance at marriage.

There is a dirty trick to dating rich man. Try to give him lots of opportunities to buy you gifts. When going past certain shops you can exclaim at the items on display and look engrossed. Rich men, if not stingy, will not shun away from such gifts. That way, the girl will be one the winning side whether or not the relationship goes into marriage at the end of the courtship.

Dating rules have to be followed well by all men, whether they are players, experts, amateurs or first-timers. The rules prepare you for a good, pleasant date to win the girl occupying your heart.

Get some decent clothing and shoes. The clothes should be all be well-fitting and attractive. The clothes maketh the man, so if you need to, get a new wardrobe full of great-looking clothes. Next will be smelling good. Sometimes just a bath would cut it. Buying some sort of scent will boost up your value to the people around you. People will appreciate you more. Then, before you step out of the house, make sure you have a stylish or neat hairstyle. Going to the barber is a good idea.

Have a career. A man needs to provide for his girl and how else other than having a stable paycheck? A man

with a job is seen as more mature and reliable. Being knowledgeable and aware of the world around us is important. Knowledge makes a man look smart and guide him in his behavior. Ignorance is not appreciated, nor will sloth.Never show the lady that you live and die by the beers. This is a indicator of your state of life. So its not wise to keep hitting the bars with her. Smoking is a no-no too. It says something about how you live life and your mental capability.

Lots of men love sports and talk about them non-stop. Doing so to your date will put her off she is not interested. It is still alright to invite her for sports if they are suitable. She may even begin to appreciate it. Instead of you talking, listen to her and ask questions. This is to let her know you care and she is your center of attention. Smile as she talks to look friendly and romantic.

If your woman loves dancing, go together with her. This can dramatically build your bond. If she dances with another man, you will be left to feel sorry for yourself anyway. It’s alright if you are not suited to dancing. Ultimately, it’s not how well you dance, but the fact that you are doing things together.

Last but not least, no sex in the first date. Develop love first before you get physical. Love is not all about sex. If sex is all you are thinking of, it’s not healthy for the relationship, and it will surely show you as desperate.

Women fear committing to anyone else other than themselves and their best friends. From the experiences of other women, they may have believed that commitment means compromising herself for the sake for her man and they believe there is no eligible men anymore.

From the men’s point of view, eligible women are a plenty but their sky high criteria leaves them being single.

Nowadays, women have strong careers and broad social circles. These have become part of our lives. Getting in a marriage may threaten this lifestyle as they become committed towards the husband and the family. Here, marriage is seen as a change in role; from career woman with a great circle of acquaintances to boring housewife. Hence, the fear the fear of commitment. A lot of women would rather have self-fulfilling lives with a great career. Many career women will not compromise their work for a relationship.

With social status changing, things are getting more complicated. Men who were the breadwinners, and rightly so, may compromise to take care of the family instead of going out there and earning money. The man is no longer the breadwinner; he may be staying home to take care of things.

The new sophisticated woman often see a committed relationship as a sacrifice; giving up a fun and exciting career for security. Therefore, they now be the ones “shopping” for men. Instead of having a man to come into their life, they may have a man for a supplement in their life. For such women, probably how able the man is does not matter a lot. The statements do not suggest any form of compromise or sacrifice; men is just a add-on, extra or whatever it may be called.

The trend is that more and more women are now more dominant in a lot of fields: financial, emotional, corporate, relational. Maybe so much so that the men are quickly losing their ground. Before it was the men who call the shots. Today, its not for certain who calls the shots. Perhaps now, the woman feels that she does not have to commit, and therefore compromise anymore.

Everyone of all levels of the dating game will have something to learn from the top dating tips, advice and philosophies in order to get themselves a better relationship. The first thing is that good looks do not always lead to good relationships. Have we not seen too much celebrity breakups? They also struggle in love so ultimately it’s not about looks, though it does play a part. There are no perfect tips or magic tricks that can lead to good relationships, but there are many tips to follow that altogether bring forth a better relationship. Remember different things work for different people.

Get prepared and do some due diligence on which types of people you are going to date. The Internet is a great tool to use. Also be mentally prepared for bad ending. A wise man once said “Never underestimate the unimportance of nearly everything”.

Prepare to look good. Buying good clothes and sporting a good hairstyle is not enough. You have to work your body and read magazines that relate to dating, get some health tips, eat well and maybe get some supplements as well. This is a great way to boost confidence and that definitely helps.

Know your game plan. Do you want to just have a happy peaceful courtship or do you actually plan to get married and in how long? You have to first find those answers in yourself, and ultimately let your date know.

Boost your confidence through the above tips and do some reading regarding confidence or some other emotions. Avoid the negatives in life. You should be old enough to know which friends are better left alone. This way you lead a better, more confident life.

Join social clubs and frequent places of social gathering. This lets you meet more people and is definitely better than just random approaching some girls outdoors. Now you have more people to choose from. Be realistic about what sort of person you want to date. Ideally, the personalities should match. If it is not, at least one part is going to be unhappy.

If all is well, take a break sometimes away from dating. If all is not well, all the more you should take a break to cool yourself. Then analyze where you have gone wrong, where you need to improve on keep improving yourself. After all, mature people know that growth is lifelong and does not stop with age.

Enjoy dating as if it is sport. It should not occupy your life. It is simply meeting people and getting along well with them. It is an activity that is good in all ways. You never know that the people you meet will bring you a love life, or a business opportunity or some other great stuff life has to offer.