Flirting is just a away to let the other party know that you are interested in them. The men are the ones who like flirting alot. The women also do flirt but trust them doing it discreetly. If you were to be very observant, you will conclude that women flirt more than men! If you are going to flirt, it would be good to arm yourself with some flirting techniques because they are very important. 

Ask the men you are flirting with to help you 

This is one flirting techniques that never fail. when you ask anyone to help you with something, you somehow make them feel very confident. You will also find that they will talk more with you, which is a positive sign especially if you really like them. 

Say his name

When talking to a man, it is important to take note that whenever you have a chance, say his name. By doing this, you are actually sending a message that you did not forget his name and that you are geniunely interested in him. You too will admit that when someone say your name, especially if you like them, you will feel great. 

Do the same actions they do…discreetly

If you are siting with them, try to do some of the actions they do. Notice I said ’some’, not all of them. If the person crosses his legs or rubbing his arms, you should do the same. This is a very good flirting technique. 

Tell them your secrets

Another flirting techniques that work well is telling the person your secrets. Let them know that you have a secret you want to tell them and when you get their attention, lean forward them and whisper something. It doesn’t really need to be a secret, something silly that hey do not expect you to tell them. You can compliment their dressing, shoes or even perfume. This way, they will know for sure that you are interested in them and that you are flirting with them. It is very important to take note not to whisper something offensive in any way. If you do, you will not be able to see the person again. Do not think that men are sexual creatures and whisper something sexual and get away with it. Even men get disgusted by sexual moves. If you cannot avoid whispering something naughty or dirty, then its better not to use this flirting technique.

Always Smile 

Among the flirting techniques in your arsenal is smile. A smile is an important possession and you should embrace it. Smile light up even the darkest moments. If you don’t believe, try going out and smile to people around you. At the end of the day, not only would you feel good about yourself but also made someone’s day a very happy one. When you get a chance, smile to the person you are flirting with. Smile often means that you are inviting a person to come over and talk to you and if you want the person to come to where you are, smile. Give him your best smile and count the number of seconds he took to come over to your table.

As men, we are put under alot of pressure in terms of how we perform as lovers. The media put in more pressure by showing us statistics on the huge percentages of women that find it difficult to achieve orgasms. 

In addition to that, men also have to measure up against main stream movie stars who seem to effortlessly give their partner mind blowing great sex. 

Lastly, to complicate this stressed situation, you are also obliged to give your partner multiple orgasms. g-spot orgasms, a-spot orgasms, clitoral orgasms and blended orgasms.

Techniques Don’t Always Work

Though there are many great guides out there that teach us techniques of cunnilingus, many men are rudely surprise that these techniques don’t normally work out as well as it should. This make them more stress and soon, the whole episode turns into a nightmare. 

But, before you think of giving up becoming a masterful lover, take a deep breath, relax and clear your mind. You are about to learn that being a great lover is more than just technique.

Techniques does play a part in helping your partner achieve powerful orgasms but only if you approach it with a right mindset. 

What is the right mindset?

So putting so much pressure on yourself in bed, have fun. After all, who would want something as enjoyable as sex to turn into a chore, or worse, a science project?

You are not going to be the only one that will be affected with the stress that is induced by this type of pressure. Your partner will notice how stress you are and eventually it will affect her performance in bed as well. 

The last thing you want is for your lover to think that she is letting you down by not reaching orgasms. She is then obliged to do anything in her power in order to make you happy, even to the extend of having to lie by faking an organsm. Ultimately, you will learn nothing and she will gain nothing. 

Appoarch your love-making session with humor. Learn to laugh at yourself and the situation if it doesn’t go as planned. This will keep the atmosphere in the room relax and fun. Most importantly, it will help you keep the doors of communication wide open. 

Communicate Openly

After you can communicate openly and in a relax manner with your partner, everything then will start to make sense. Have the right appoarch and mindset will also make the task of learning new cunnilingus easier. You will better learn how to apply these techniques because of the relax manner you and your partner are able to communicate. 
You will realize that every woman will have different wants and needs when it comes to sex. You will also realize that it takes time to truly learn your lover. Most importantly, you will realize that there really is no hurry, because both of you are having fun.