What Mistakes Must I Avoid If I Want to Make Sex More Enjoyable For Him
When couples try to improve their love making life, they tend to make some mistakes and make their love making effort worse.
Read on to find out what 7 love making mistakes most couples tend too make:
Fear or Embarrass to Tell Your Partners You Want to Try New Things on Bed
The truth is, don’t let fear or embrassment hold you back. 90% of the time, if you tell your partner that you want to try new things on bed, you would be suprise that they too want badly to try new ideas. However, like you, they are either embarrassed or fear of asking.
There are many different ways of bringing variety to enhance your sex life without being too vulgar, dangerous or werid. This way, you know that your partner will feel comfortable and if this work for you, it will work for your partner too.
Begging or Trying to Convince Your Partner to Make Love
When your partner “isn’t in the mood” or perhaps doesn’t have enough energy, your chances of convincing him to have sex isn’t very high.
The absolute best time to have the best sex ever is when a person is sexually aroused…(duh!) everybody knows that…but do you know why? When aroused, the body produce a chemical ’adrenaline’ into the blood stream which provides them with the energy to have sex. This is how you can get your partner aroused…
Women: Between 9am and 10am in the morning, men’s testosterone is at it’s highest. You can dress up sexily or be totally naked and stroke his penis sensually. Watch how fast he will make passionate love with you.
Men: Look into her eyes and be passionate when you kiss her lips. Touching her face while kissing her will increase arousal. Give her your full attention when you kiss her neck, take quality time to embrace her and don’t rush.
So Eager to Enjoy Sexual Intercourse That You Neglect Foreplay
Foreplay will intensify your orgasms. It is important to note that it you will actually enjoy your intercourse. So build up towards it instead of rushing it. Take your time to caress, kiss, lick, rub and suck. SLOW DOWN…and tease! Make your partner wild and crazy by playfully teasing them!
Play some games to heighten anticipation. Know and pay attention to what your partner really like so that you can do some now and save some for later.
Using Porno & Sex Toys to Make Sex Better
It is a mistake to think that watching erotic videos and buying werid plastic gadgets will make sex more enjoyable. This is a wrong thinking! Of course, sex toys do make it more enjoyable but relying on them is a big no-no because they are “outside source” which will not leave you satisfied or fulfilled if that was what you lack in the first place.
You want to let your partner look forward to havingg intimacy with you, not your sex toys or videos. So learn to please each other with your bodies and introduce the sex toys as a bonus!
Thinking a Woman Will Orgasm Only From Intercourse
Men don’t realize that most women can’t reach orgasm through intercourse alone. Just knowing this is very liberating for a man. Gentlemen, master the art of cunnilingus.
Trying to Orgasm at The Same Time Is Over-Rated!
Focus first on the woman’s orgasm. Men save the better feeling positions for later, as you should focus on your lady’s satisfaction first and foremost. This increases your chances of both of you climaxing and being fully satisfied and fulfilled together.
Having The Same Routine
Forget the drill: Clothes off, in and out for a few minutes, bada-bing bada-boom it’s over!
No matter how phenomenal sex can be, the same thing will inevitably get boring! It is very bad for your relationship when it becomes “routine”.
“The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal. That’s the secret. In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot, steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love and even make love more often.”
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October 20th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
well sex toys its just a bonus to add spice in your relationship when you have sexual intercourse with your partner.